ihatethesourdrinks asked:

Your latest post made me very jealous,I wish I had felt the safety in my doms arms,and we had bonded together so closely that I knew he wouldnt leave me for another woman.

Don’t get me wrong, I still am TERRIFIED of the possibility of Him leaving me for another woman. I have terrible nightmares about it every few weeks and the thought of it makes me have panic attacks. But I ultimately have to trust Him or I’ll kill us. 

I am sorry that you were dumped though. That’s very painful and if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to talk to me. 

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ihatethesourdrinks asked:

we have an odd way of going about things,I shoot him idea and he tells me what he likes and doesnt like on me. :D

Well then that’s not bad. If Ulfric REALLY disliked a tattoo idea of mine, I’d probably re-evaluate it myself. But most (like 98%) of my tattoos are nerdy in nature, and He loves the geek in me, lol.

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ihatethesourdrinks asked:

I freaking love your new tattoos!! I want something super bad myself,But Master hasnt picked what I can have yet

That is the one thing that Ulfric doesn’t get to choose for me. He likes all of my tattoo ideas anyways, but to me, tattoos, even if they don’t have a ~super deep~ meaning, are VERY personal things. The thought of letting someone else dictate such a permanent thing on my body is really…frightening? I’d be afraid of things ending then HATING my tattoo.

Also, thank you! :D

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ihatethesourdrinks asked:

Hello. I really don't have anything to ask,I just wanted to say its wonderful you blog about your life with your Master,its awesome to see into another Sub's D/s relationship. I look forward to what you have to write!

Thank you so much! I should probably do a post today, actually, haha. <3

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